Relationship red flags

These are things you should look out for when dating someone you've met virtually. Some of the red flags are more obvious, like if a prospective partner is asking you for money before your first meeting. But there are other red flags that not only seem innocent, but a natural part of going out with someone.

When meeting and talking with strangers, it’s always important to use your best judgment and listen to your instincts. If your date seems respectable, but there’s still something off about them, you should listen to your unease and remove yourself from that situation.

If your prospective match only has one or two pictures, it may indicate that they're a bot or an otherwise fake profile. You should be cautious if the person you've matched with constantly dodges your questions, or they only provide vague answers.

If you’re chatting with someone who tries to force you to meet in person before you're ready, this could also be a red flag.

If your match refuses to talk with you on the phone before meeting, this could indicate that they’re trying to catfish you.

Someone who posts their social media handle on their profile may not be an overt red flag, but it could suggest that they're only looking for followers and not a serious dating match. 

Be cautious if someone doesn't match with you after getting your phone number or before you get a chance to go on a date with them. This could be a way for a person to prevent being reported on those apps.

Profiles of people who aren't local, especially if they only want to meet at a hotel or other private area, should be approached with caution.

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